Age Gap Relationships for Sean

[Jessica Rabbit]

Ok...in your personal opinion how old/young should Sean draw the line at? Personally altho I'm in my 30's with kids and would not date a 23yr old in real life (purely because of the mentality of 23yr old men and the fact I'd sooner not have to be the 'teacher' in the bedroom ) no matter how hot they were...I don't believe in limits to loving someone whether that be age (adults), sex, religion or different ethnic backgrounds etc.

So what about you guys?

[shazz]

If two people get along well together, feel good in each others company and love one another, that's all that should matter. Relationships are not all about sex, there has to be trust, loyalty, compromise, emotional / moral support, friendship / companionship, etc.
;)Alot of 23 yr old men are loving and kind. But with every age, you're going to get good and useless, in both men & women. Some people are good in bed and others are useless or clumsey, and again, this can be at any age. If someone needs abit of help or knowledge, that's ok. Everyone has to start somewhere. It could be fun teaching someone, you'll have to customise things in the end, anyway, because everyone likes relationships and sex in their own different ways.
I agree with you, love knows no bounds.

[Robakaz]

I would agree with that too because when you're in love you're in love and that can get you through anything

[Neil]

Not sure as I don't know the age gap between me and the missus

I dare not ask Shazz her age you see! ;D

[shazz]

Robakaz said:

I would agree with that too because when you're in love you're in love and that can get you through anything

Exactly.Life is too short, you should try and experience all you can. If someone honestly cares deeply for you, wants to be part of your life and only wants the best for you and for you to be happy, then why not? Could you ask for more??

There's no harm in it, and you would love the experience. You would be walking on air and be sooo happy. Why miss out on that because of age? You'd regret it the rest of your days, knowing, you never let go and took a chance. Why spoil things for yourself?? Indulge yourself.............

[Jessica Rabbit]

LOL Neil....you and Shazz got something to tell us??

Everyone is different I agree and I was generalizing I guess about 23yr olds, I don't actually date younger guys (I'm just recovering from my huge Sean crush which was unusual because of his age, but would never have dated anyone that age in real life), I guess I was just expecting them to be less experienced than older men in general.

[shazz]

Well like I say, some are quite experienced and some aren't. You get that in any age group. I guess it all depends whether you've had any long-term relationships.Where you've had to put in some effort and take into account another person's view's, needs and desires. Not just going out with someone for afew days, weeks or a one night stand.
I say, if love comes along and you feel good about it, go for it.

[Jessica Rabbit]

I've had a few relationships but none younger than me. I think for the most part tho lads around 23 are immature and have a different lifestyle than men in their 30's. Yes you do get some of them mature for their years but not most of them from what I've seen.

[DAGtinker]

I've always preferred younger guys (the older they are the less comfortable I feel with them) but until Mr Kazinsky leapt out of my TV Times last year (the black vest shot back in May 2007), I never would have believed I could be attracted to a guy so very much younger than me. So I can understand your dilemma, Jessica.

Still, we'll likely never meet Rob so our fatal attraction to a babe so young shouldn't be too much of a problem. And in real life, I really don't think a 24 four year old would turn my head...

[kiszcat]

I dont have a problem with age differences if the person is right. If you click and get on well then it shouldnt really matter.

[Emma C]

100% agree kiz.

[shazz]

Yes, exactly...Bang a gong, get it on.....

[tvlover06]

i dont realy mind tho most of the guys i been with have been older, some a good bit older but clearly not ancient lol

[kiszcat]

My ex is 13 years older than me and even though we arent together we are still the best of friends.
I suppose that could be down to maturity btu as it wasnt a nasty split I dont know. It kinda helps if you are good friends before you get together.

I dont think there should be any strict rules to relationships, as long as you arent doing wrong or hurting anyone it should be what works for you.

[tvlover06]

well said:)